Dear diary 👀
From the time I was old enough to get into a relationship I've never been the type to want or be interested in dating multiple partners, I've only ever had one boyfriend at a time and the longest I've dated out of the two serious relationships I've had is close to four years.
The reason being at the time and even partly now as I am in my late twenties, I was never a 'fast' girl for a lack of a better word. I am a homebody at heart and I enjoy being by myself, this is not to say I hate being around people, I'm actually the most friendliest and welcoming person I know and I do get along with most people but there are times when I need to recharge and regroup. Hence when I'm in relationships I like committing myself to just one person and that alone takes away a lot of my time and emotion. Now, If I feel that you and I in a romantic relationship setting won't work, then I rarely ever get into a relationship with that particular person. Even If I do find myself in a situation where I'm about to get into one with 'the one it wouldn't work out with', I always left one foot outside just in-case I needed to bolt!
And because of not fully committing myself to a relationship, I never really consider it as a relationship. Hence when people ask me how many relationships I've been in I always refer back to the two relationships I had from the time it was age-appropriate for me to be in a relationship.
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